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Looking for happiness....?
by MaJor.A on Wed May 13, 2009 11:46 am
Happiness exists.... but who can find it?
No person can find happiness except in himself, but he has to be guided to the best way of finding it, which may be summed up as the need to be sincere, courageous, hard-working, loving towards people, cooperative and unselfish. And he should have a conscience above all else. Happiness is not a myth, it is something very real, enjoyed by many. We can enjoy it too, if we learn from experience and benefit from what we have gone through in life. If we are patient, we can explore and learn much from ourselves; we can rid ourselves of many physical and psychological diseases with knowledge, will-power and patience, and we can live the lives that Allah has given us, without ingratitude, disobedience or misery.
People are the mirror of the individual. If he behaves well towards them they will behave well towards him, so his nerves will be calmed, and he will be content, and he will feel that he is living in a friendly environment.
But if a person treats others badly and is harsh towards them, he will find that people treat him badly and in a rough and harsh manner. Whoever does not respect people will not be respected by them.
The one who has a good attitude will have more peace of mind and is less likely to be anxious and distressed or find himself in painful situations. In addition to that, having a good attitude is an act of worship to Allah, the Exalted, and is something that He encourages a great deal.
Think About It...
Be like the bee, which lands on fragrant flowers and fresh branches.
You do not have time to seek out people's defects and mistakes.
If Allah is with you, then whom do you have to fear? If Allah is against you, then what hope do you have?
The fire of envy consumes the body, and excessive jealousy is like a raging fire.
If you do not prepare today, then you will not be able to do anything tomorrow.
Withdraw peacefully from places where idle arguments are going on.
Let your morals and attitudes be even more beautiful than a garden.
Do acts of kindness and you will be the happiest of people.
Leave people to their Creator, leave the envier to death, and forget about your enemy.
The pleasure of Haraam actions is followed by regret, loss and punishment.
Do not wait to be happy so that you smile, but smile to be happy
No person can find happiness except in himself, but he has to be guided to the best way of finding it, which may be summed up as the need to be sincere, courageous, hard-working, loving towards people, cooperative and unselfish. And he should have a conscience above all else. Happiness is not a myth, it is something very real, enjoyed by many. We can enjoy it too, if we learn from experience and benefit from what we have gone through in life. If we are patient, we can explore and learn much from ourselves; we can rid ourselves of many physical and psychological diseases with knowledge, will-power and patience, and we can live the lives that Allah has given us, without ingratitude, disobedience or misery.
People are the mirror of the individual. If he behaves well towards them they will behave well towards him, so his nerves will be calmed, and he will be content, and he will feel that he is living in a friendly environment.
But if a person treats others badly and is harsh towards them, he will find that people treat him badly and in a rough and harsh manner. Whoever does not respect people will not be respected by them.
The one who has a good attitude will have more peace of mind and is less likely to be anxious and distressed or find himself in painful situations. In addition to that, having a good attitude is an act of worship to Allah, the Exalted, and is something that He encourages a great deal.
Think About It...
Be like the bee, which lands on fragrant flowers and fresh branches.
You do not have time to seek out people's defects and mistakes.
If Allah is with you, then whom do you have to fear? If Allah is against you, then what hope do you have?
The fire of envy consumes the body, and excessive jealousy is like a raging fire.
If you do not prepare today, then you will not be able to do anything tomorrow.
Withdraw peacefully from places where idle arguments are going on.
Let your morals and attitudes be even more beautiful than a garden.
Do acts of kindness and you will be the happiest of people.
Leave people to their Creator, leave the envier to death, and forget about your enemy.
The pleasure of Haraam actions is followed by regret, loss and punishment.
Do not wait to be happy so that you smile, but smile to be happy
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Re: Looking for happiness....?
by Ruwaydah on Wed May 13, 2009 8:16 pm
Subhanallah so true. Jazakiallah khayr sis for sharing just exactly what i needed to read....
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Posts: 191
Re: Looking for happiness....?
by MaJor.A on Wed May 13, 2009 8:35 pm
My pleasure
May Allah Ta'ala bless us all with happiness & good health & accept all our duas.....
May Allah Ta'ala bless us all with happiness & good health & accept all our duas.....
MaJor.A- Join date: 2009-04-11
Location: South Africa
Posts: 91
Re: Looking for happiness....?
by .:Hibat Allah:. on Wed Sep 23, 2009 3:17 pm
Amin , jazaakz fr sharing
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